Written by Mara Brown- Master Dog Behaviorist
Many of you read my good-bye love letter to my beloved BJ last month. (Thank you so much to the many readers who reached out to me to tell me how much that article touched them. That meant a great deal to me, and really touched my heart!) This month I want to talk about something that pet parents will have to face – end of life decisions for our beloved pups… and that usually means Euthanasia.
Putting down your dog can be a beautiful and sacred experience that you get once in the life of your dog. That is how it was with my previous dog, Cody. I brought him to the vet, where the vet compassionately examined him and reassured me that it was “time”, and gave my dog a calming shot in this paw, while the dog rested in my arms. Then the vet stepped out and gave me time to tell my dog how much I
love him and what an amazing dog he is. After a few minutes the vet came back in and explained to me that when they give him the shot, by the end of the injection the dog will be gone. My dog died in peace and love in my arms.
With BJ I had a completely different experience. I am writing about it to save you from potential trauma and heartache. BJ and I never had the chance to experience that sacred moment I had with Cody. The vet seemed to lack empathy or compassion, and refused to give BJ the calming shot. My dog was in pain and panicking and then suddenly there was only… silence. My dog was just gone. It was a truly horrific experience and I am still trying to recover from it. I want to ensure that no dog or person ever goes through a nightmare experience like that. So here are my tips:
1. There are vets that only do in in-home euthanasia and will come to your home and compassionately and lovingly help your dog end their life while surrounded by your family’s love in an environment your dog is happy and comfortable in.
2. Some people don’t want that to take place in their home. But before you choose what vet to go to, ask some questions in advance:
- Will they administer the calming shot? If not, find another vet.
- Will the vet talk with you about the timing of this decision (many people second guess themselves and torture themselves with the question – “was it too soon?”)
- Will they give you time with your dog to say what you want to say?
- Be sure you choose a loving and compassionate vet. They are not all that way.
3. Some vet clinics/hospitals have beautiful grounds outside that you can choose to do it in.
There are options. You have rights. Be aware. And my heart is with you. For life coaching for you and your dog visit www.LifeCoachingForDogs.com or call 310-467-2334.
